Distance Domme

I’m a Domme who helps folx explore and heal their gender/sexuality/intimacy issues. (Follow me on Instagram.)

Join my distance D/s program to kickstart your healing around gender, sexuality, and/or intimacy issues. Opting in to the structure of “having” to do the hard work might be just the setup you’ve been needing.

Distance Domme Program

Working with me can be challenging, intense, and very rewarding. I have only 20 max slots for this program at any given time and openings vary. This D/s relationship is distance only and a prerequisite to any in-person kink with me. It costs $90 a week and includes one 60 min FaceTime/Skype call per week and daily Marco Polo videos and texting as needed.

The focus of my Distance Domme program is to help my subs explore their boundaries and beliefs around bodies/sex/gender and any related trauma. My in-person kink sessions require deep trust between D/s and that can only be achieved after this exploration process. I’m nurturing and caring and fair and I expect complete obedience.


Why do I have to do this program before we can kink in person?

There’s a lot of ways to do kink/BDSM wrong and only a few ways to do it right. My way requires a deep dive of core beliefs so I know you’re as prepared for kink as possible. I feel this process helps us both trust each other and results in a beautiful and safe(r) connection. This isn’t the way most Dommes do kink and I fully understand if it’s not something you choose to do.

Why do you charge money?

Domming a sub through this discovery process takes up a significant amount of time. The rewards my subs get are worth the expense, as is my time.

Is this energy work or is it kink?

Yes. I use my energy healing arts skills as I work with my subs. That includes reiki and intuition as well as mentoring. I believe kink can be a type of energy work and used to great advantage to help growth. It’s also kink, as there will be assignments around bodies and sex, requiring vulnerability in videos and writing assignments on the part of my subs. This creates a very close and deep D/s kink relationship.

What does it mean for you to be my Domme in this context?

As my sub, you are mine. I don’t share subs, so I expect you to stop any other D/s relationships you have while you’re in my program. You’ll wear a piece of jewelry I select for you, you’ll be in contact with me every day, and do everything I ask to the best of your ability. If you are currently in a D/s relationship and still want to work with me, mentoring info can be found here.

How long does this program last?

For as long as we both feel it’s beneficial. Either of us can stop at any point. I fire subs from the program who refuse to do the homework or fail to respect my boundaries around time and money.

How do I pay you?

You’ll send me a Venmo payment a week in advance to reserve the slot in the amount of $90. I reserve the right to increase my prices at any point in the future.


Through our private work together, [Leah] has supported me in uncovering layers of old patterns and beliefs that do not serve me anymore. In each session, she creates a safe space to shine light on the dark shadows that have been hidden away for so long and helps welcome in deeper levels of self-love, acceptance, and inner strength that I never knew existed. I appreciate Leah for her compassion, intuitive guidance, and genuine desire to be of service. -K.A

It has been such a beautiful experience, uncovering bits of me that I did not know I had; protections and layers that I did not know I had built. Leah has taught me how to be self aware, soothe my anxieties and fears, recognize my emotions and where they may be stuck. Every time I walk out of her office, I’m lighter, more myself,and more resolute in taking the next steps in my story. I want everyone I know to experience Leah, her love, and her touch. She is amazing. -A.E.

Leah draws on her vast experience and creates a positive, proactive regimen to help her clients reach their own untapped potential. A powerhouse. -N.R.

I have learned so much from working with Leah and she’s also helped me uncover and reinforce things I already knew that I didn’t quite know I knew. She’s an incredibly gifted teacher and listener.She hears what I’m saying even when I have trouble finding the words to say it. I sleep better, work smarter, play more joyfully, and love with more tenderness and appreciation. -J.M.

The value I place on these experiences [with Leah] is beyond measure! I see the world through a more enlightened and brighter perspective. I use [her] methods to support my experience of the process and proceed with love. This means improving the quality of care I give my accupuncture patients. As a wife, this means having a better relationship with my husband. The peace of mind I experience daily has grown enormously. -G.S.

Leah is unique and special as a health care advocate because she has lived the healing she is promoting. The uncommon wisdom she has come to understand through actual experience imbues her offerings with something extra. I hope you have the opportunity to work with her and make her valuable healing experiences your own. -S.R.