The sister of Empathy is called Holding Space. They hold hands a lot and hang out together watching old episodes […]
Hello, White People. I’m glad you’re here. Regardless of whether you’re looking for a fight because you’re mad I’m talking […]
Hi. If you read that long epistle I wrote and got really irritated and bugged and kept rolling your eyes […]
(Are you a Person of Color? You will see the * periodically throughout this piece. Please know as you read […]
I’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to be yourself, to own who you are, since I wrote […]
In 2014, photographer Katie Gardner took some photos for me at Blogher for a project that never materialized. Our intent […]
Let me set the scene for you. We’re sitting on the couch, my husband and I, my nose buried in […]
I love this time of year, I said, in super serious sincerity. Jeans. Boots. Chunky sweaters. (HAHAHAHAHAhahahaha just kidding. It […]
I’m super excited to announce that an updated edition of my book, Heal Something Good, will be coming this fall! […]
I’ve had my fair share of grief over the years and when you have a real conversation with just about […]
I had the experience the other day of being in a room full of people who are similar to me […]
Sometimes I feel like I learn new things right before I really need them. You know what I mean? Like, […]
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