gender genderfluid writing

Essay – The Power of Wearing What You Want, Shondaland

My piece about embracing my gender is up on Shondaland: She grew up wearing girly clothes to fit in with her family. Years later, she cut off her hair and dressed in masculine clothes, embracing her true gender identity. “When I was little, I learned that pretending was a skill I should cultivate. I pretended …

gender genderfluid writing

Ravishly – I’m Genderfluid and Here’s What I Want You to Know

“Believing in a gender binary, where only “men” and “women” exist, has created a stifling system where personality traits are attributed to one gender or the other. This ignores the vast intersections where male, female, and non-binary characteristics exist, co-mingle, and crossover. What’s wrong with a man crying and being sensitive? What’s wrong with a …